Corien Boers relatietherapeut
Relationship therapist
Corien Boers
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When you want to learn to love each other and yourself again
Change is absolutely possible
Welcome! I sincerely hope that, even if you are in doubt, wheter or not to ask for support you will take the step after reading what I can offer you and help you with. I am specialised in relationship therapy and individual therapy, personality issues, anxiety disorders, gloom complaints and trauma.
I will help you to develop more connection with yourself, and significant others. I provide insight into what the pattern between you and your significant other looks like. And help you in gaining new, positive, experiences. As a result, you will manage to have better conversations with each other and the sparkle and intimacy will return.
If you are not quite sure yet whether you want to take the actual step? Then contact me so we can schedule an introductory meeting, in which we not only get to know each other but you can also experience whether there is a click.
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All forms of relationships are welcome; polyamorous, pink and straight relationships. Relationships that suffer from violent moments, or when there is trauma. Even if you are an intersex person, bisexual, genderneutral, transgender or non-binary person. In short; Everyone is welcome, regardless of how you identify, or not (yet).
More than 750 couples preceded youā
As of 2015 I have my own practice, more than 10 years experience in counseling families, parents and couples. More than 25 years I have given group- and individual therapy.
Hi, my name is Corien Boers and I am a relationship- and family therapist. It is my passion to help people connect more lovingly with themselves and each other. I'd love to take you through my path andhow how I developed in this way;
I started working in disability care and from there I started working in a youth psychiatric hospital. There I saw and experienced how terribly difficult it is for a parent to maintain a good parental bond while the child is taken care of and raised by others. This has put me in a dilemma: my drive to want to be meaningful, to get children on their feet again, on the one hand, but on the other hand I, and we as a team, were taking over the parental role and dismissed the parents in a way. I wanted to be the link, the support for both sides so that we can strenghten the so terribly important bond between parents and child. So I became a family therapist. That was a huge improvement!
However, I could not succeed, within the four walls of the current health care system, in shaping treatment in the way that, it should be for the family, accordinig to my opinion. I was revolted by the limit to see a family only 6 times a year. If the problems were not over by then, I had to let them go regardlessly. I didn't want to compromise and thus I chose to follow my own path. I started specializing in couples therapy; killing two birds with one stone. Because; the best thing parents can give to a child is a happy loving relationship between them. And of course, the parents themselves benefit quite a bit from that too :-)
EFT Relationship therapist
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I mainly use the EFT vision and method (Emotionally Focused Therapy). This is an loving and cordial way of working. I will help you out in discussing difficult issues; What do you actually express when you are emotionally aroused and what do you really mean by that? Are you able to really voice out what you truly feel in the heat of the moment? I will explore your attachment history, the role you have learned to take upon you in contact with others. And I will expose, in the here and now, what the pattern looks like between you and the peolple around you. By taking these steps together, you will succeed in talking about your own experiences more easily; What is holding you back and how you would like things to be different? All this in order to be closer to yourself and closer to the people that you love.
Couples therapy
If you miss your partner, miss the 'us' and would like to get your intimacy back and also wish to be able to manage to be together more as a team, read on here....
Couples therapy
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EFT couples therapy was originally developed by Dr. Sue Johnson and is concerned with our desire to be able to bond with our partner. It is about longing to feel and knowing that we can be there for each other: I have your back and you have got mine. EFT is about attachment, about feeling safe with your partner. And that together, as a team, you can take steps in becoming the better version of yourself and each other. In freedom and in emotional attuned connection.
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EFT is for couples who get stuck in a pattern where you lose each other, tensions mount, you no longer understand each other, there are a lot of words and/or a lot of silences.
I will help you to recognise your pattern, so you know and understand what your irritations are and your desires. And how to express these without losing connection. Once you see it, you can never not see it again!
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EFT is also for couples with whom things are going quite well and who still long for just that little bit more connection. You are most welcome!
Consultations with me last 75 minutes. If you have any doubts, feel free to contact me, I am happy to think along with you.
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Individual therapy
You may get stuck in yourself and/or in relationships with significant others. You just can't figure out what pattern you keep getting caught up in. Sometimes you need support in getting to know yourself......
Individual therapy
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Are you getting stuck in your relationship(s) and have no idea what's causing it? Are you unable to create peace and connection in your relationship (s)?
Great that you took the step to seek support!
Together with you I"ll explore how you bond, the way you connect with others, your view of self, the thoughts and experiences you have which form you and lay a foundation for your actions. Often, after a few conversations, you really have a much better understanding and a more clear perspective.
Are you ready to take your first step into the new phase in your life? Feel free to contact me!
Introductory
interview
30 minutes
€ 50
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Couples therapy
€156,25
75 minutes
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Individual therapy
€125
60 minutes